Do you have your heart set on some guy you often see, at school, college, workplace, or just in the neighborhood but do not know how to make him fall in love with you? This can be mighty frustrating! You want to strike a good relationship with this person, but you do not know-how.
Now, here are some tips by which you can do just that.
Get Him to Notice You
Nothing is going to work unless he notices you. Now, guys have an innate eye for girls, so your problem here is not as complex as you think. You have to plan to be in the right place at the right time, which should not be very difficult considering you share several familiar places.
You might think of a few other ways of grabbing his attention. Take care of the way you dress. Learn to speak in a refined manner and polish up your personality. Guys like all these things.
Understand His Personality
Once you have got his attention and got introduced to him, you must understand his personality. You have to see what he likes and what he does not like. Find out about his passions, for starters.
The good idea is to ask him to add you on Facebook or any similar social networking website and chat with him there. You can know a great deal about a person’s personality when talking with him. Also, ask his friends if you can.
Please Him… But Just a Little
It is your turn now to give him a little attention. When you have started talking with each other, you might give him a small something as a keepsake.
But, this need not always be material. Speak about the things he likes to speak about; go to places with him where he wants to go; cook something for him that he likes to eat. All these things make you important to him.
Let Him Plan Things for You
All men love to plan things for their women. He will want to plan too. He will want to plan a date even. Let him do that. Men like to be in control. Men also like women who allow them to be in control.
Just Be Yourself
Over and above everything else, you have to learn how to be in control. It is very important for you that you do so. You should maintain your integrity and have an opinion of yourself.
Men do not like women who change for them; that is a fact. They do not like women who hide behind layers of makeup. The most desirable ones are always those who are as natural as can be.
Keep these things in mind if you have your heart set on a man you want to claim as yours. They will help divert his attention toward you and keep him close to your heart forever.